The Parlour Room historically was where guests were received, the space for conversation, composure, and cultivated presence. In The Vintage Pen Club, it should feel like a gathering space for refined discourse and cultural insight,  not casual chat, but gracious commentary.

Here’s what you can do in The Parlor Room:

 

1. Cultural Commentary

• Discuss what’s happening in the world, but always through a lens of elegance and values.
   

• Example: “How the decline of manners affects modern relationships.”
   

2. Etiquette Lessons

• Share timeless etiquette practices and modern adaptations for grace in today’s world.
   

• Example: “The art of arriving, why being five minutes early still matters.” or  “Why dressing for the body you have and not for the one you want or think you have matters”
   

3. Social Behavior & Presence

• Explore how women can carry themselves with intention, dignity, and charm.
   

• Example: “Volume, posture, and poise, what a room hears before you speak.”
   

4. The Conversation Table

• Pose a “Parlor Question” of the weeK,  thoughtful, vintage-inspired conversation starters.
   

• Example: “What’s something elegant your grandmother taught you that still holds true?”
   

5. “She Would Never…” Mini-Series

• Short reflections on what The Vintage Woman would never tolerate, endorse, or engage in,  and why.
   

• Subtle, firm, and unbothered by trends.
   

 

And you can also find

Voice Clips or Readings, softly spoken mini-episodes we post in this section as well as reading parts of the book featured The Vintage Woman Project by Sher, and have delicate and soft discussions about what is the book trying to tell.